Everyone has that someone in their life that is controlling, domineering and just out right gossipy. That person who tells everyone and I mean EVERYONE'S business including your own. That person who always has to control a conversation and be in control of the friendship regardless. When they loose control, they find a way to regain it through drastic measures. OK, maybe not everyone knows some one like this, but I have had the pleasure of knowing someone like this for the last year, and finally everything came to a head. It's OVER! the domineering attitude, the I ALWAYS AM RIGHT NO MATTER WHAT, the pointing out of all the flaws that I might have, the Control, OH GOD THE CONTROL!!!!!! friendship should NEVER be like this! Friendship is something you cherish, something that you hold close to your heart. When you tell a friend something that is personal, you expect that that person will keep it to themselves, and when you find out to late that is not the case, it's devastating... I finally had the courage to stick up for myself in this situation and let me tell you it has been no picnic, and I still don't know what the repercussions are going to be. But I know that what I did was right and I feel good about it. I don't deserve any of that, and neither does anyone else. You should never be in a situation like that. It's not fair, and when the person plays the victim you just feel sick to your stomach. Because you know how fake that person is. All I am saying is be careful you might be next. Watch what you say, your business may already be out there. Just think about it for a minute and you might realize what I am saying is true. I found out to late.
On that note. I feel much better, I am no longer in a controlling relationship that is dictating my life. I know this person will seek some type of revenge, but I have taken the right way out and as long as I know what I did was right that's all that matters.
xoxo
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