Crazy Days of the Single Life

When you go out with your girls, you get all dolled up, ready to hit the town, and you would think that some (most) guys would have respect. OK I am speaking from a point of view here of not being a slutty, so when I say getting all dolled up, I mean classy - not trashy :). There is a point of flirty and to far. But how far is to far? Guy meets girl - girl meets guy.... You know the rest. You sit down and a guy comes up to you, you are expecting a "Hi my name is.... What are you up to tonight?" No instead you get a "Do want to put your hand on my D*%*"... WTF??? Is that even appropriate? Out of the blue HELLO!!!! Again case in point - to far.
So on to the next, your on the dance floor dancing with your girl and a guy comes up to you and is ALL over you. PDA to the MAX... NOT OK! I mean come on are we in high school? I am in my 30's, as is my friend (well close), and I am not your girlfriend. So if your want to dance with me, cool, but don't put your hands on me like your petting a dog. Seriously, who taught you manners? Would you treat your mom like that? Next time  you see me and wonder why I gave you a wrong number you will know. I'm not your girlfriend, so if we dance once and your all over me, and then act like i'm yours for the rest of the night - um NO! Get over it!
Another hint, if you see me making up excuses to get away, let it go - NOT interested!
Then must I mention all the assholes out there, that think they are just to good for their own good. I mean really, do you honestly think that sitting in a corner looking out at the rest of the world with this look that says "Hey I'm the shit" - when ya, your really not. Try getting a different hair cut, oh yeah and a different shirt. And did I mention that the crowd you run with is not intimidating. I'm from Denver bitch, believe me my friends back home are more intimidating. Asshole will be assholes, no matter which way you swing it. In a small town it's funny how many I have met, but I guess with it being such a small town the chances are that much greater.
The games are played, the players are playing and I don't speak guy :). I just love it how they think they are the only ones that are in control. Yet do they speak girl?
There are so many situations that play out in the singles crowd, and it's better not to get emotions involved. Why hate a player, when you play the game yourself?
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